Still not convinced a basic handjob is the way to go? Thats fine. You won't be in about 1 more minute of reading this...trust me. Ladies your most powerful tool you have to turn your man on isn't your breasts or you ass. Now BEFORE you start with the picketing and emailing me about what a cunt I am for saying that let me finish...A ladies most sensual experience and attractive quality about her is her voice or rather what she says to her man. Haven't you ever seen an attractive man in RL or SL where you thought "Ughh he could do so much better than that skank" well 7 times out of 10 that Skank has used her words to seduce/trick/influence that man to be with her and that she is worth his time and affection. Not to mention the number of women who make men cum all day long just with a simple phone call (yes I have done this too, and it is amazing practice for physical sexual encounters and will make you very unique). Ladies if you haven't yet and you are dating a new man or trying to court a new master, try to just use your voice or words to make him cum....you won't regret it and he will find the experience to be truly unique....but alas I will do another entry about that soon we need to get back to HANDJOBS!!!
In order to perform a great legendary handjob we need to keep in mind our anatomy quickly. And lets keep this simple and put it into 4 parts:
1) Head: That part of the penis that looks like it is staring you in the eyes. This area is incredible for a man to have touched and will have the most amount of nerve endings on the penis per square cm. and produces the most amount of pleasure in the typical man.
2) Frenulum: The under part of the penis where that nice little line goes on the bottom....I don't know why but this is one of my personal favorite areas to work, and can be a GOLDMINE to tickle him with. You won't believe how much his large dick can move from a simple stroke of your fingernail over it.
3) Rim: Self explanatory but this is the area we will be working over and over around the head of the penis when we stroke him quickly, it slides past this sensually nerve active region and will make him want to blow his load fast if you go too quick.
4) Underside/Scrotal: This area is what makes my handjobs so unique. You need to master this part of a man by his balls and at the base of his penis if you ever intend to truly serve his cock completely.
(I was going to include a picture of an example drawing penis here, but I figured the Men reading wouldn't appreciate that as much.....so Men....You're welcome! And ladies as always IM me if you have a question on what I am referring to.)
Now the way you individually approach your handjob is up to you, but I will give you all the basics you will need to make it your own here. And guys these are the "suggestions" you can give your lucky lady in your life for what to try the next time you 2 are together!
The Proposition: Guys, tell her how much you want to explore her sexually, and how you want to try something new that you heard about from a friend or a new way to jerk me off when you're tired baby. I swear my #1 reason for not having sex with my old boyfriend was always because I was literally exhausted...while this wasn't often for a nympho like me it did happen at times and I am truly ashamed of it, but if I had known how much fun and how effortless handjobs could be to relieve that problem I would have done that ages ago...and Girls if you offer your man a handjob he will NEVER say no, but the problem is getting him to let you just keep jerking him off without him forcing your head onto his cock. Now if he really really just wants your head on his cock he will tell you and MAKE you suck it. In that case just let him be and help him out, but if he is complaining about how it won't feel as good I suggest using the ignoring him approach ;giggles; Now I don't mean to literally just ignore him and keep going but rather you need to ignore his request and smirk/smile up at him with a seductive look that says "I am going to blow your mind". A little eyebrow raise and a smile goes a long way
The Intro: Work his legs ladies. I cannot tell you how many times I have seen/heard amateur girls grabbing right for his cock. Yes trust me I want to have that cock in my grasp even before he has his pants off most of the time too. I know the urge, the lust, the mind numbing drive to make his hot semen cover your entire body as you bask in its perfection, trust me! But first you want to talk dirty to him and stroke your fingers along his legs, preferably at their most sensitive part on the inside of his legs. Let him imagine just what you have in store for him before you actually start massaging that hard shaft. I want you girls to promise me you won't touch it until its literally hard as a rock and standing up fully on its on. Got it? Good!
The Touch: When you think about stroking a man to completion you have to think about enjoying the journey. You may be tired and maybe he isn't wearing his Tux tonight or that cute shirt he wears on date nights but you owe it to him to give it your 100%. That means NOT RUSHING the jerk off phase. Don't just grab and start blasting that rod like its a bottle of "shake well" lemonade. You need to cater it, treat it like its a gem. I want you to first cradle his cock by letting your warm, soft skin grabbing only the base of his cock. Hold it there for a little bit and watch it bounce in your hands. You have control of it now. You then must earn your way to the top where he is the most sensitive by slowly slowing your hand up his shaft until you can take a full grip on it with your entire small little hands. At this point if you are a tease you may blow on it, but some may think this is cruel or worse yet, insist you get to sucking. Your goal is to keep him wanting though, so as you continue to stroke his shaft I want you to do so slowly, and keep eye contact. Say something dirty to him. Many girls think saying something dirty sounds corny, but I promise you....in that scenario you can say anything you want to him with a little ""ahhhhhh" or "mmmmm you're so fuckin big" and he will melt for you (but don't lie if he isnt that big because guys can tell when you're lying). Now as your work your way to the tip this is where the game changes.
The Tip: This is where the finesse comes in and separates the girls from the ladies/whores. You want to stroke the tip/head of his cock gently, and even with one finger works well most of the time. In a video below there is a beautiful example of a woman simply using her finger tips to make a guy cum and skip to the end if you don't believe how mind shattering a handjob orgasm could be. Also before moving onto to your full on stroking phase, I want you to enjoy his frenulum. This means playing with it gently with just a finger as you look at him with longing eyes....some men may cum from this and to that I say "Good" he will enjoy every second of it.
The Finale: After you have done all of the above, I want you to not let him cum for at least 3-5 minutes if he is a quick cummer or 8-12 minutes if he has some stamina. Yes you will get a workout in your hands, but the pay off will make it more than worth it when he looks at you with longing lustful eyes the next time you two are at a casual dinner. Before you let him cum I want you to massage his balls gently. DO NOT BE AFRAID OF THEM PLEASE. They are the most erotic and sensual part of the male body, and this can also be combined with playing with his asshole with the tip of a finger. (If you read my last article, you know by now how sensitive the asshole is for both sexes). I want you to work all of this in your favor, and to finally make him cum with quick jerking and twisting motions. The twist is imperative and should not be attempted by the inexperienced girls. It requires a lot of muscle control to do it right, but as you stroke up you want to twist your hand around his shaft, increasing your tension just at the end/tip and make sure you give a good tug once you are past the Rim. To let him finish you may want to surprise him with where, my personal favorite it on my breasts because I am a traditional gal like that, but I often like to turn around quickly and let him cum all over my back or in my hair (get over this ladies, you can shampoo it out later). Guys will love you for letting them cum in places most girls don't and isn't making him happy what this is all about?
Well I hope you learned something and guys I hope you enjoyed this, even if only for the naughty pictures. As always, feel free to email me, IM, or message me on Google about anything you might want to know in addition.Now girls surprise your man tonight with a handjob! Trust me, he will adore you for it if you stick to my guidelines and think about how much you want him to cum throughout the entire session. He will feel your intent and to top it off letting him cum some place other than a condom or in your mouth will be a welcome experience. You are now one step closer to becoming the "freak in the sheets" that guys want! Bon apetite!
Fuck her Right, and Serve Him Tight,
Talia
Here is an example of girls making Handjobs into their own Art:
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